My home was built by my parents in 1950. After my mother passed away and my father moved to an assisted living facility, I returned to Stillwater in 2000 and remodeled my childhood home. In remodeling, I tried to retain, restore and preserve everything possible. Obviously, I love my home and our family history here.
I have spent an untold number of hours working in my yard and have been told by many that they truly appreciate its beauty. I am finding it close to impossible to continue maintaining my property for the purpose of bulldozing.
I do understand that only change and taxes remain constant…. and that change is necessary. There are, most often, difficult aspects in change as well as good aspects.
The OSU Expansion Plan is worthy of awe. However, extremely difficult decisions must be made by property owners in the expansion plan area, whether the owners live in the homes or utilize the property as rental property for their income. Do we stay in Stillwater, reinvest in another area? Do we move to another city? And if so where? Are we financially able to remain in a City in which taxes will increase to such a great level, due to the expansion.
I, obviously, tend to be a very sentimental person. I also believe I am a very fair minded person and fight for fairness for everyone in any situation in which I am involved. I am so saddened and hurt, probably to the greatest extent in all of this, by the insensitivity, unfairness, and lack of respect shown the property owners by MY university.
According to the “presenter” of the masterplan during the Nov. 10th meeting, this basic masterplan was approved in July of 2004. There was no consideration or discussion with any of the property owners, to my knoweldge until we read it in the newspaper.
I read the paper, and noted that the OSU Foundation was heading the project and that a meeting was to be held Nov. 10. On Monday I called the Foundation and talked with Gary Clark, to find out the time and date of the scheduled meeting. He did not know, however, did find out the time and later called to inform me of the meeting location. I, of course, am quite anxious to know the timeframe, etc. regarding the acquistion of my home.
I attended the meeting and learned that I could have some of my questions answered at the homeowners meetings taking place on Nov. 16 & 17. I read in a letter to the editor (Stillwater Newpress) that acquistion was to be completed by June 1 of 2006. Could that be correct, I wonder. I am still trying to remain “calm” and “reasonable” and wait too hear.
My point is simply that I am tremedously disappointed that my university did not see fit to inform property owners in a timely manner and give us an oppotunity to “adjust” and “consider our re-location options”, when the plan was first approved and known to “those in charge”. I feel this is not only insensitive, but bordering on cruelty.
I have loved my university. I am a Posse member and have held season tickets for football, wrestling, baseball, softball, women’s basketball, and am still on the waiting list for basketball. I go to the arena before basketball games and buy tickets from people selling tickets they are not using. I have attended women’s soccer events and equestrian events. I have been a loyal and dedicated fan of our athletics. I love to see us excel, yet still love them when they are down. Half my attire is Orange and Black and if it’s orange (from decor to wearing apparel) I buy it. My enthusiasm for OSU and its sports has been unlimited.
I did not like having to miss the wrestling ranking matches due to the masterplan meeting. I attended the women’s basketball game and the men’s basketball games on the 11th and the great football game on the 12th. I will have to admit that even though I was thrilled with the games, I found I had lost my voice for cheers and my heart was not as fully involved as it has been in the past.
Ironically, I have never attended a tennis match, although I do enjoy tennis, and now my home and property are to become the tennis courts.
Linda said,
April 3, 2007 at 10:47 am
This is to Lee and his siblings. My dad had your father as a professor. My sister and I both majored in mathematics and had your mom for Number Theory (late ’70’s and early 80’s). I stayed in touch with your mom for awhile and even got to go to an OSU football game once with your parents. I didn’t know that their house was part of OSU’s plans. I heard yesterday, from my dad, that he had heard that your dad became ill in Arizona. I just wanted to let you know that our hearts and prayers are with you.
Sue Agnew said,
April 10, 2007 at 11:36 pm
Thank you, Linda, for sharing your story. That’s how teachers attain immortality, through those whom they’ve influenced, who carry on the good work.
Daddy is in HealthSouth, a rehab hospital. He is becoming stronger each day, toward the goal of eventually returning to Stillwater. Rehab seems to be two steps forward/one step back, so it’s discouraging, but when we think that two weeks ago he was on a ventilator in the CCU, it’s amazing. He’s a tough 90-year-old, and he’s “fighting” with grace and dignity.
The address of HealthSouth is 2650 N. Wyatt Dr., Tucson, AZ 85712 (his name is Ted). Cards are appreciated! And hearts and prayers are really helping — all of us!
Lee Agnew said,
April 17, 2007 at 6:14 pm
As some of you already know, our father Dr. Theodore L. Agnew, Jr., passed away Sunday, April 15 in Tucson AZ.
Funeral services will be held Saturday, April 21, 11:00am at First United Methodist Church in Stillwater. A complete obituary will be published in the Stillwater News-Press.
Memorials may be directed to the Oklahoma United Methodist Foundation (Agnew Family Endowment Fund), 4201 Classen Blvd, Oklahoma City 73118, or to the First United Methodist Church, 400 West 7th Avenue, Stillwater 74074.
Condolences may be e-mailed to the family and an online obituary may be viewed by visiting http://www.strodefh.com.
Lloyd L. Wallisch II said,
April 18, 2007 at 6:21 am
“Back in the day”, Lee and I were tight friends politics and otherwise, then drifted apart.
I’ve been gone from S-water a quarter century now, but the entire Agnew family … I’ve always thought the highest of all of you.
So a terrible shock to open the Tulsa World this AM and see the death notice for Ted, esteemed historian and prince among us.
Sorry, I don’t know if Jeanne is still with us, but, if so, my profound regrets and sorrow, and same to the entire Agnew clan.
Time to go John Dunne: ‘Every death like this, diminishes all of us, but each of us is better, that one such as Ted sojourned so long among us.”
Lee Agnew said,
April 18, 2007 at 10:00 pm
Thanks for the kind words, Lloyd, and it’s good to hear from you again!
(Ah, those long conversations in the Wesley Foundation basement — we sure had the world figured out back then, didn’t we?)
Mom passed away back in May of 2000, after a struggle with Alzheimer’s. Both she and Dad set a high standard for the rest of us, and they are both sorely missed.
I will certainly pass your condolences on to my brothers and sisters. Thanks again.
Dee Ann Sanders said,
April 20, 2007 at 11:40 am
Hi, Lee,
I got to know your father well the past few years, since I returned to OSU as an engineering professor. I found your name in a family biography that Will Paine had prepared, and had a sudden flash of fond memories: you and I were in the OSU band the one year I was here as a student–working on my MS during the 1971-1972 school year. Band, especially the wonderful and wily French horn, helped me keep my sanity that year. And conversations with your dad; newspaper articles and letters to the editor by you, your dad and sister, and just being with your wonderful father, helped me keep my sanity at OSU the past few years. I shall miss him terribly, and I feel for your loss. Even 90 years isn’t enough for a man of your father’s stature.
Take care.
Dee Ann
Lee Agnew said,
April 29, 2007 at 10:04 pm
Hi, Dee Ann,
It’s good to hear from a fellow French hornist. Those were indeed some great times. And thank you so much for your kind words about Dad. He was an inspiration and example for all of us.
Best to you and yours,
Lee
Lee Agnew said,
November 17, 2007 at 11:40 pm
Update from the Agnew family:
Since our father Ted Agnew’s death this past April, my siblings and I have been hard at work dealing with all the physical, legal, and emotional matters involved with settling our parents’ estate. Those of you who have been down this road know what I’m talking about.
We have reached some significant milestones: The house in Washington Heights is on the market, and the dates are set for the estate sale. (December 7-8-9. For information contact JLK Antiques, 377-1805.) Dad’s papers and documents related to his work with the United Methodist Church have been donated to Oklahoma City University. His papers related to his OSU career have gone to the Special Collections of the OSU Library. Mom’s papers have gone to the Archives of American Mathematics in Austin TX. It is immensely gratifying to us that so many others are interested in our parents’ lives and their work.
The house at 701 N. Bellis Street that Dad donated to the Oklahoma United Methodist Foundation lives on through the endowment fund established by the proceeds from the house’s sale to OSU. The first year’s earnings from that endowment have gone back to our parents’ communities via the First United Methodist Church in Stillwater, and our mother’s home congregation, Trinity United Church in Thunder Bay, Ontario.
On November 2, 2007, at the annual Friends of the OSU Library Banquet, Ted and Jeanne Agnew were honored posthumously with the Edna Mae Phelps Award for their years of support of the Library and the University. Accepting on my parents’ behalf, I quoted some of my father’s words from his valedictorian’s speech before the graduating class of 1933, Ogden (IL) Community High School. (The handwritten draft of that speech was among the boxes of papers we had been sorting through the week before.):
“Have we learned … that courtesy ranks with courage? Do we know how to be good losers? Do we know the power of kindness, the joy of work? Do we appreciate the influence of example, the worth of character?”
Dad wrote that speech when he was 16 years old, but he lived the values expressed in it throughout his 90 years. As the year of his death draws to a close, we are grateful, not only to the example that he and Mom set for us, but for all our Stillwater and OSU friends who have shared our grief with us.
We would like to wish everyone who reads this a Blessed and Joyous Holiday Season, and a New Year filled with new and happy memories.
Sincerely,
Lee Agnew
Tamara Colbert Maschino said,
December 5, 2007 at 12:25 pm
Lee, our thoughts are with you and your family, it is so hard to finalize a family members estate, the jewels of wisdom you found from your father are priceless.
Kim Cox said,
January 3, 2008 at 2:35 pm
Lee & Susan:
You probably do not remember me but I will always remember you two. You befriended a frshman bassoonist who had never been to a large university and made him feel like he was pasrt of the band. I will never forget that. I am sorry to hear about Dr. Agnew. Although I never had him for a professor, I always heard a lot of good about him.
Actualy, I was googling for Lloyd Wallisch and happen to come across your name, Lee. Nice poem.